folieafabulous:

whenever ppl find out i’m intp they’re like ‘oh but you’re so nice and caring and social’ and im like bitch i was socialized like a fucking girl okay i have a big approval complex and fucking hate conflict and I know that the easiest way to skate through life is to just be sweet and kind and fly under people’s radar, so that is what i do.  i promise you that inside i am very much the condescending, analytical space-case you’re thinking of